It is very crucial that you bond with your boys at all levels. Being cordial is not enough. Parents should note the following: If you don't bond with them. They will bond with something or someone else . Bonding is in the littlest things. It d ...
Start of Day
It is important that we influence our boys and contribute to them having a great day. It all starts with making sure they have a good night rest. How do you wake them up every morning? Do you hug them? Or scream their names from their dreams? Some par ...
How You Ask Matter
Instance: Your boy is angry, upset, down and maybe sad. He says to you that he is not eating. You don't know what has happened and you are worried. So, how do you ask? Are you Parent A or B? Parent A: "Stephen, come and carry your food before I sla ...
The Boys, Games and Toys
Toys and games are very essential in the development of a child. 21st-century parents need to understand this and also know the type of games and toys they should get for their boys. Some are so used to getting toy guns and maybe football for the boys. T ...
Resist the Urge
Guiding your boys in making choices in life is the best bet. They get to be independent early enough. Parents need to resist the urge of wanting to choose for their wards. Although making choices for them saves time, saves you some stress and maybe mo ...
Routines: What About It?
Daily Routines for your boys is highly important. This should include their day-to-day, hour-to-hour activities. Daily routines will help them to: Manage their 24 hours well. Always ready for their duties and roles at home. Guide them through ...
Are You an Abusive Parent – Part 1
Just the other day, I wrote about treating your boys as little people. A few days after, a video of a teen boy destroying his mum's kitchen circulated across social media. A lot of the commenters were quick to curse the boy, drag him put all the blame on ...
Your Boys Can Be Anything
They can be kind They can be harsh They can be pleasant They can be wicked They can be anything you allow.
Stop Yelling. Start Communicating
I can't say for sure that there are PERFECT parents because I don't know and I haven't conducted any research. But I know for sure that there are parents who make effort daily, parents who put in the required energy and commitment in the raising and trai ...
Basic Skills or Gender-Based
I found out there are lots of chores and skills that have been gender-tagged. Even with proven facts that a boy-child has more muscle and stronger body build to do some things better than the girl-child, yet society, culture especially, parents still pla ...