Instance: Your boy is angry, upset, down and maybe sad. He says to you that he is not eating. You don’t know what has happened and you are worried. So, how do you ask?
Are you Parent A or B?
Parent A: “Stephen, come and carry your food before I slap you there. It seems you are not hungry because I don’t know your problem. I will go out from morning till night while you are at home playing. If I come at you where you are, you will carry this food now and eat. Rubbish!”
Parent B: (Goes to Stephen) “Stephen, what is the matter with you? You know you can always talk to me about anything and everything. I won’t eat yet until you talk to me. Then, we will eat at about the same time. So I’m listening. Come, let’s go to a more quiet place so you will tell me everything.”
If you are Stephen, which parent will you talk to?
The goal is to raise a better boy child. Let us make effort to do the most and I know the grace is there for us.
Happy parenting and Cheers
Mrs Kush
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