Bonding with the Boys
It is very crucial that you bond with your boys at all levels. Being cordial is not enough. Parents should note the following: If you don't bond with them. They will bond with something or someone else . Bonding is in the littlest things. It d ...
Start of Day
It is important that we influence our boys and contribute to them having a great day. It all starts with making sure they have a good night rest. How do you wake them up every morning? Do you hug them? Or scream their names from their dreams? Some par ...
How You Ask Matter
Instance: Your boy is angry, upset, down and maybe sad. He says to you that he is not eating. You don't know what has happened and you are worried. So, how do you ask? Are you Parent A or B? Parent A: "Stephen, come and carry your food before I sla ...
Resist the Urge
Guiding your boys in making choices in life is the best bet. They get to be independent early enough. Parents need to resist the urge of wanting to choose for their wards. Although making choices for them saves time, saves you some stress and maybe mo ...
Routines: What About It?
Daily Routines for your boys is highly important. This should include their day-to-day, hour-to-hour activities. Daily routines will help them to: Manage their 24 hours well. Always ready for their duties and roles at home. Guide them through ...
Stop Yelling. Start Communicating
I can't say for sure that there are PERFECT parents because I don't know and I haven't conducted any research. But I know for sure that there are parents who make effort daily, parents who put in the required energy and commitment in the raising and trai ...
Have Faith in Your Boys
With all the fears and agitations in raising a well-groomed boy child, amidst the negative feedback and recurring incidences around, not forgetting your consistent prayers and seeking God's face that your boys turn out well., this is a reminder not to ge ...
Your Boys are Little People
Today I am advocating for the boys and children generally. I have seen this trend where children are treated in some type of way, with little or no regard for their feelings or how the situation will translate to them. I have even heard adults boasti ...
Create a Healthy Relationship or Nothing
Let us pick today for review and reflections. Cast your mind on the relationship and rapport you have with your boy-child. So how far? Is it Cordial? Is it Healthy? Are there uneasiness or any kind of resentment? Will the relationship ...